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This post is incredible. It's dropping gold left and right. It makes me feel a bit less crazy, because I've noticed that improving my relationship with my cat has improved my relationship with all people. And I've been running around telling friends that I bet you could go on a date with someone, spend an hour with them, say ZERO words and leave with a sense of whether you're attracted to them

(this would be a bad date for like, if you want a long term relationship, but I think a perfectly fine date for vibe/physical attraction). I used to think this was crazy because "I would know nothing about them!" but that's not true. There is a LOT of information outside the word content. Exactly like you say here:

> My reliance on words at face value was failing me.

> I don’t get full off a lot of words. I get full off of how they are lubricant for the sustenance I need — which is really, someone’s substantiated character.

especially this part!!! we can sometimes literally hear better if less words are used!!!

> Soon, I noticed that I could actually hear better if less words were being used

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Travis Zane's avatar

Jajajaj the intro is a big part of why I am excited to get a dog one day. I've always been fascinated by the ways animals and humans understand each other!!

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